“Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
The quote above comes from one Albert Camus, a philosopher and journalist from the early part of the 20th century. He was born in French Algeria and became known for his existentialist perspectives on life, although he really didn’t like that label. And what he says there certainly bears some weight.
Some of us may aspire to be leaders, this is true, but we may also want to carve our own paths. We don’t necessarily want you to trail behind us, because there is a certain sense of isolation at the top. By the same accord, we still want to exercise a certain level of independence and that’s why we may not want to do exactly as you do either. That’s why, as Camus says, he’d much prefer you to “just walk beside me and be my friend.”
Indeed, this is a theme that I keep revisiting on this blog: life is about the journey and that journey is so much more enjoyable and fulfilling when you have companions for that journey. You share those experiences, you have common treasured memories, you support each other in defeat, and you celebrate your mutual successes. We all want more money and a higher standard of living, but we have to remember to appreciate everything that happens along the way. Together. We are a social species, after all.
Albert Camus authored several books on this and other subjects, if you feel like following up with some good reading.