As a freelance writer, I largely get to set my own hours and “work when I want to.” That phrase — “work when I want to” — is a bit misleading (and a common myth), because if I truly only worked when I wanted to, I probably wouldn’t be working nearly as much as I do. I think this is true of most entrepreneurs, both online and offline. At the same time, I do feel blessed that my work is mostly enjoyable and at least the blogging part of it can be pretty fun (and something that I might have done anyways).
Some time back, I posted an article here about finding a healthy life-work balance. Working from home on my own terms, I’m faced with quite the conundrum, because I’m never truly away from the office in the traditional sense. Whereas the conventional 9-to-5 worker can leave his or her job behind at 5pm on Friday afternoon, that’s much harder to accomplish as a 24/7 entrepreneur. I’m always on duty, so to speak. There is always an opportunity to make money and that serves as a huge motivating factor.
As such, it is far too easy to feel guilty if I am sitting at home, twiddling my thumbs, because I know that I can take a few steps over to my computer and blast out a couple more projects that have been sitting on my plate.
Don’t get me wrong. Most of the subjects covered in my freelance writing are already areas of interest for me. I wrote about Street Fighter characters, for example, and that game is something I’ve loved for a very long time. The same can be said about when I blog about MP3 players or cell phones, because I like that kind of stuff even outside of the work context. In blogging about mobile technology, research must be done and this oftentimes involves the reading of several tech blogs on the net. As you’d imagine the lines between what is considered “work” reading and “leisure” reading become quite muddled. The separation becomes even blurrier when it comes to video games or the happenings in the blogosphere.
For a while, the tagline on Stephen Fung dot Net was (and I am paraphrasing), “Work, play… it’s all the same.” In this sense, I guess the fake Hong Kong star shares my perspective or experience to a certain extent. It sometimes can feel like it’s all the same.
To find an appropriate life-work balance, some gurus teach you to set up well-defined boundaries between what is personal and what is business. When you are off duty, leave the BlackBerry at the office. For work-at-home Internet entrepreneurs, I’m not entirely sure if this is wholly possible, especially if your occupation also happens to be your passion. And this sort of begs the question: Do you really need to separate work from play and vice versa? Must your job have nothing to do with your leisure?
My tentative answer is no, based not only on my personal experience, but also the experience of certain dot com moguls with whom I associate. All this said, it would be fascinating to hear from other people struggling to find a life-work balance and how they view the matter of separating work from play. Please don’t hesitate to speak your mind through the comment form below.
It’s hard. Nowadays I spend much time working (although I really enjoy my work).
It’s all a matter of what you view as enjoyable. I don’t think it is work if you enjoy it 99%. If you can get to enjoy most of what you consider work, it will seem like mostly play.
I think for us, playing is working. I mean, anytime we do something fun, we blog about it…that’s sort of like work.
I think the key is to find a way to “work” at something you enjoy. If you’re able to make money doing something you’d be doing anyway (or would want to be doing anyway), there’s no need to separate work and play.
I get to play dress-up everyday I’m at work and eat free food. I think that’s plenty fun 🙂
I don’t think I could be an actor. I think I would be laughing the whole time.
It’s a common mistake to think that being self-employed means to work only when you want to. Normally the entrepreneurs spend at work at least 50% more time that the usual clerks.
If you enjoy what you do to make money, then there doesn’t have to be a line between work and play…
Well, yes> Untill you are not sitting in the stuffy office in you suit, typing the annual report.
Work and Play… it’s the same thing! Internet / Affiliate Marketing is awesome! There is no better job.
I believe so… Speaking about the online business we can say that work and play are the same thinngs…
This is definitely a struggle. I think it wouldn’t be as hard if I wasn’t able to lug my latptop around the house. If I could only work in one room of the house, whenever I left that room I’d be mentally freed from it. But with the laptop, I figure I might as well log on and do some work while watching a baseball game or something.
I think we first have to define the difference between leisure and work. Leisure is something we indulge in. It is temporary and so is the happiness gained from it. Work, however, is something we work long and hard on to achieve something. Work is often very rewarding and I think this is where the “loving your job” concept comes from. To truly be at peace in your life, you must have an equal balance of work and leisure, temporary happiness and lasting/rewarding happiness.