Should You Work With (And For) Your Friends?May 3rd, 2011 by Michael Kwan
In this way, it’s probably more accurate to ask whether you should be taking on your friends as clients.
What’s the Problem?
And therein lies an incredible range of possible concerns. In some ways, you could say that a customer is a customer is a customer. You could say that if they’re willing to pay and you’re willing to do the work, what could be the possible harm in taking on a professional relationship? Then again, you could run into problems related to a friends and family discount.
You see, you’re bound to have friends who not only feel like they have a discount owed to them, by virtue of your friendship, but they’ll also assume that the project they provide should take priority over your other clients. Is that a fair assumption to make? Or do they have a better understanding of how your small business works and they respect that they have to join the queue just like everyone else?
The Upside to Working for Friends
Yes, when you take a personal relationship and turn it into a professional one, you could add a great deal of strain and ambiguity to the mix. Depending on the types of services that you provide, it might be in your best interest to refer out to a colleague. That would make sense if you were a psychiatrist, for instance, as your friend may not want you to know his or her innermost secrets.
That said, there are some benefits to blurring the lines between a professional relationship and conventional friendship. This is part of the reason why I attend Dot Com Pho. Trust and friendship is earned first, and the business side naturally falls into place as a result. We respect one another for what we do, and know that we can trust one another to do the best possible job. See the two guys in the photo above? I’ve worked for both of them (and continue to work with John).
I assume nothing, but you’ll find that someone who is your friend first and your business associate (whether as a service provider or as a client) second is more likely to engage in free word of mouse marketing on your behalf. That’s a huge bonus, especially in an industry like mine that relies so heavily on personal referrals. I’m sure the realtors, accountants, and lawyers in the audience will agree.
Blurring the Lines
Whether or not you choose to work with and for your friends is completely up to you. It boils down to the same kind of discussion you’ll need to have with yourself when it comes to separating work and play. Should your professional and personal lives be as separate as possible, or is there more value to be gained in the synergistic effects of integration?